I don't get holidays sometimes..for example..valentine's day. Are you serious?! why mark a day to give a person a reason to do something super nice for their significant other..?? February 14th, the day[thee ONLY day] most of the guys plan something special for their lady..better yet, they plan something nice and get something nice...i dont know..i feel like most guys do it cus they feel obligated to do something just for that day. i mean..then everything goes back to normal..hmm..weird. but yeah..im not a big fan of vday..most people get super excited...they pick that day to hook up, get married..haha..i just dont really like it..well, i dont HATE it..just not a big fan i guess. I mean, i think people are suppose to be surprising and spontaneous randomly. that what makes the sparks going right..so whats with vday.... you're going to surprise her/him on the day that she/he already might have an idea that you're planning something...HA. funny. OR, this is sad too, the day is getting close and you're asking yourself, "what am i getting for vday?" then you think of all the possibilities and the day comes, you get nothing..no chocolate, flowers, card, or suprirse! [typical vday gifts..] bummer right?!! YES...people get their hopes up thinking their boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife/lover..[whatevers you want it to be..] & they end up not getting you anything. dont get ME wrong on this, its all about the quality [undivided attention and uncondtional love & happiness] your significant gives but its doesnt hurt to do little surprises..catch her offguard and TA-DAAAAA..."happy vday my love" typa thang...i dont know..im just saying..ladies...fellas..don't get chur lover hopes up...and dont be such a dick/bitch also.
anyways, moving on to a different topic...So i was wondering..this is hella randoms. heres an incident..YOU have a boyfriend/girlfriend that you been wtih for a while right...things arent always the BEST[we all know that] and its not always soo dreadful[i hope NOT]...what would you do or how would you react that your significant other broke up with you..in a silent-mode..kinda way like.."we're broken up but im not going to tell him/her". you call them and they still answer and talk to you..but its always one word answers..say it been going on for sooo long and all this time, you thought the relationship was still rollin'...DAMN, thats fucked up right..i mean, if that shit happend to me, i be pretty damn upset..HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU WAS MY BOYFRIEND AND I DID THAT TO YOU?? hmmm...
which lead me to the last random subject..open-relationship...you knooo....the kind where you both mutually agree that its ok to date other people too. but you love each and you see yourself with one another..but its an OPEN-RELATIONSHIP. before, i thought that was weird..but come to think about it, i think some people just cant really commit to one person..yeah, i love you but i want to test the water..see all the fishy and see what they all taste like..ya feel me??!! call me crazy [actually DONT!] but there are couples out there that are like that.. thats some weird shit to me...can a person really LOVE one person and be itimate with others..ehhh...im glad i have someone that is with me and ONLY wants to be with me. hes funny & i love the guy even when he drives me crazy, makes me wanna pull my hair out & sock him squared in the face..!! [i love him so much!] so yeah, i dont know..but i guess we're all different..something for me to think about i guess..sleep on and hopefully find a reasonable answer. insomnia is nooo blehs.
til then....
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